Friends hinders the process of making friends.
the product hinders process.
ironic?

maybe not.

my gp/pccg teacher once said that we should refrain from sticking to our usual friends during gp lessons all the time because it limits what we are exposed to. Same viewpoint. Same argument. Your scope becomes very narrow.

it applies to life too.

indeed. (as my arts math teacher's fave word goes)

I guess there are occasions where I wanted to bring my friendship with some people to a higher level, or in some other cases to revive to what is used to be.

but I realized I cant.

why?

cause. Their friends are too good. Spoil market, or so to say. haha.
well. Its just that they have such good friends themselves, and they are so close with them that there is just too little opportunities to upgrade our friendships. Or so to say.

but yet. if our friendships advances to a higher level, it denies others a chance to do the same, both to you and your friend.

confused confused. oh well.


well. anyways. Comfort zone. Who is always that willing to step out of it?

not me. I dun want to step out of my comfort zone all the time too. So I cant expect that from others.

"boundaries do not keep people out. They fence you in. You can spend your life drawing lines, or you can spend your life crossing them."

there are times we have to chose the right over the easy.
stepping out of my comfort zone is one example.

(I just stepped out of my room and I heard this phrase over the TV.)
(I will attempt to paraphrase)

"life is full trials and tribulations. These are things we cannot avoid nor can we determine the outcome. The only thing we can do is to face them courageously and to cherish what we have now."

indeed. (hah. I just love to use that word)

*well. Our friendship can probably never return to what it used to be. Probably never. But since there is nothing I can do to alter the outcome, the only thing I can do is to cherish. Yes cherish.*